Rock on Sunflower! I agree 100% with your post.
Whether he (Drac) was a patron of the bar is
irrelevant to the discussion at hand. I have
homosexual and lesbian friends, but that doesn't
make me a lesbian! The 'coward' was trying to
pull a 'guilt by association' trick.
There _are_ people who enjoy being tied up, hit,
spanked, cut, berated, whipped, etc etc. It's not
up to me to make them defend their preferences.
For example, I cannot stand cooked apples. That
may sound completely off the wall to most people,
and I don't have a 'valid' reason for why i
don't, except that I don't. Sure, I don't think
that hitting or pain should be a part of sex, but
if YOU do, and you and your partner are legal
consenting adults, I don't have any right to
persecute you based on my opinion of what is
morally right/socially acceptable, etc etc.