I have gotten into this discussion before
reguarding the "Rape Fantasy". No woman actually
wants to be raped... but it's when you have
Pierce Brosnan tying you up... it gets a little
Anyway... I am sorry that you find the bondage
thing so vile. I know a lot of people (Mostly
married couples) that play the bondage games and
are quite content with them. Hey... it's not for
me, but who am I to judge what they feel is good
I don't feel ashamed. I am sitting here drawing
a Yaoi scene right now and DAMN is it hot. I own
SEVERAL Yaoi doujinshi's and will own more. And
while there is a whole movement against this type
of thing... there are clubs that are FOR this
type of thing as well.
I wish I could help you to understand what makes
it a turn on. But I really don't have the words
for it. I am on a few Yaoi mailing lists and
they are 90% women. My husband loves to see two
women kissing... I love to see two men kissing.
The best I can say is... To each his own.