I can totally relate and commiserate! There are
some bidders' names I see when I am bidding on
eBay and YJ and I just think "Oh, jeez.
Nevermind - I'll never win this one." And I
invariably don't. I myself have a case of
the "have to have it blues" because I just lost a
dream cel earlier today (mmmm...half naked Spike)
despite an increase in my maximum bid to Celga.
BUT just keep trying because you never know. I
recently won a cel that I was *sure* I wouldn't
get. You never can tell...