I can totally relate and commiserate! There are 
some bidders' names I see when I am bidding on 
eBay and YJ and I just think "Oh, jeez. 
Nevermind - I'll never win this one." And I 
invariably don't. I myself have a case of 
the "have to have it blues" because I just lost a 
dream cel earlier today (mmmm...half naked Spike) 
despite an increase in my maximum bid to Celga. 
BUT just keep trying because you never know. I 
recently won a cel that I was *sure* I wouldn't 
get. You never can tell...