[you have just commited cel 
community "social suicide" by dissing Debbye and 
Misa in the same thread]

I respect and highly appreciate both Debbye and 
Misa, but like most online "communities" people 
gather allegiences and loyalties and then it 
becomes easier and easier to be ostrasized. I 
don't think that Avery should have taken out her 
anger so quickly, but why did Misa have to jump 
in?  This matter would have been much better if 
it was taken to private e-mail and maybe one 
statement made from each side in order to keep 
reputations intact..not this continuing "I know 
my friend and I trust this person" or the other 
random people, "well I've bought from her 
before"  It just leads to a lot of condeming and 
back patting. Anyways I hope that everyone can 
focus on things other than feeling personally 
insulted all the time and that goes for 
the "victims" as well.